Do Not Email, Unless He/She Has The Qualities That You Want It will be a waste of time, and will be a good way of gauging just how ready you are, to really meet and build something of substance.
If after reading through a profile, you notice that there are very few things you find interesting about this person, and you choose to send a message based solely on looks, you are probably thinking with the throbbing organ between your legs, and doing very little actual thinking.
No relationship is easy, whether started online or in person, knowing how to create a great foundation will help you to remain focused, and strong through your personal journey. I mean like really, eventually you will have to meet these people, go out on dates, and if you find a great fit, build a relationship, which means that if you lied about something significant, you are putting a future relationship in jeopardy.
In person, I would clam up, but being able to write helped me to speak clearly, and to really blossom.I suppose in 2015, after 5 years of marriage, you can call yourself a success...maybe?5 years in, and I can honestly say that marriage is hard work, it is a test of your ego, will, and patience, one that is harder than anything that you will ever experience. I am sure that I am one of many women, who looks at her parents' long, rocky, but happy marriage, praying for the same thing.It is one of the things I loved about C's profile, I swear I fell in love with the profile before I fell in love with the man.To this day, when I get pissed off at something he does, that profile comes to mind, and I get even more pissed off!Honesty was very important for me, when I started to consider online dating.I was very shy, and had always been a better communicator through my writing.My mother met my father in person, they met, you know, the way people used to. My father was a Christian camp minister, and my mother was a young girl in search of a stronger spiritual foundation.He just happened to be her minister for the summer, and from there, nothing was clear.You are career oriented, and stable, because you know I want a man not a boy.Being clear about who you are, and what you want, will create a natural filter.