Or don’t put yourself into positions where you have to lie! I’m obviously screenshotting every text to my girlfriends, and almost all of them go “you don’t get antibiotics for an allergic reaction.” So, now I’m like – LIAR. And then later that day, he was pretending to buy aa house near his apartment on IG story. Either he took a hit from “John’s” pipe/joint, or he was kissing someone who was smoking it. He says he smokes pot to relieve back pain from a herniated disk in his cervical spine. That said, I think there are some screwed up things going on where he works.
The lies u talk about in your article are not what breaks up a relationship. I have a cousin with MS, and she uses marijuana to relieve her symptoms. A lot of his co workers smoke pot on their breaks/lunches and then go back to work.
Yeah of course it hurts to know the truth up front but it’s worse to continue to lie and lie and lie because in the end it’s worse knowing you didn’t give them the truth. So my “used to be lied to” ass googles open clinics in that area, and they’re all closed by 8pm. So then the next morning, I follow up asking if he’s Ok.
Trust me it saves both parties a hell of a lot of heartache to just not lie in general. And he said he has an allergic reaction and was given a shot and antibiotics. I live in LA, and men lie here ALL the time – and the lies aren’t even for good intention like to protect me or show off. He lies about things to my face, and I know he is lying. “I was outside on my lunch break at work, and I was standing next to “John”, and he was smoking it.” “Thats why you smell it on me”. That still didn’t explain why, when he kissed me, I could taste it on his lips, and smell it on his breath.
A major fear is being lied to deceived which brings me to the main question of this article: Why do men lie? I’m talking about human nature – no one gender is more or less habitually a “liar”. He has been knowing this woman for 30 years in Atlanta where he lived 6 years. We denigrating for six friend of his who is a nurse . My boyfriend of 4yrs always lies to me about meeting one of his mates who tried to split us up in the past. Since we got serious his mate walked out of his life for over a yeaand half and has recently turned up and since then my boyfriend had met him and lied about and then when I fiuns out made out it was my fault he hadnt told me. I just want to know why this friend lie to me in the first place. So if the game ended at 9, and he drove 20 min to a screening, and then wasn’t at a bar near his house an hour later … The other day, he picked me up and we went to his house.
OK, now I want to step back because I can imagine that my points may have enraged certain readers, who are ready to comment with things like, “Why should we have to reward his dumb ass for not lying? dating, dishonesty, how to know if a guy is being dishonest, how to know if a guy is being honest, how to know if a man is lying, love, lying, male behavior, Relationships, why don't men tell the truth, why men lie I think this advise could be potentially dangerous in that it might convince women to ignore bad feelings they have and tell themselves “he just didn’t want to hurt my feelings.” There are a heck of a lot of men out there who are pathological liars, are married and are committing love fraud. He came to Birmingham to take care of his aunt she died last oct. We’ve just bought house abroad and ive just found out my boyfriend arranged to meet him while he was abroad working on the house and didnt tell me. I’ve dated a pathalogical liar – and while looking back some of the lies are hilarious, it truly scares me that some people are so insecure that they’ll lie about insignificant things like: I have 2 puppies, I lived with my ex gf, Judd Apatow is my mentor and his wife Leslie Mann is at this bar with me………. He was hungry and ordered pizza, while I just watched tv (in my own world).
I have caught my boyfriend lying a few times now, I am now not even sure what is the truth and what is a lie anymore.
Whenever a relationship goes sour (or fails to launch), it’s almost always caused by some tiny fear, doubt, worry or insecurity that grows and festers until you feel overwhelmed by the whole ordeal. Your fears and worries compel you to confirm whether they’re real or imaginary.Ofcourse I am now going to start wondering what is he up to, who is he with, why did he need to lie to me, is he messing around.This is the worst possible thoughts to be constantly having. My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 4 years.A man who promises certain behavior that his partner also promises i.e. I don’t think its necessary for someone to do that. I don’t have a problem with him smoking it to relieve pain. In spite of everyone saying that Pot isn’t physically addictive, a person can still become addicted to it. What I have a problem with is someone who uses substances to escape their lives.like keeping intimate things private and then talks about their lovemaking adventures with someone else was lying when he agreed to keep things private but never intended to. Also, when he was in his 20’s he overcame a Cocaine addiction. At the end of the day, the problems are still there . He doesn’t remember conversations, he stinks of weed, and when he is stoned, I don’t know if his behavior is just him being a little weird that day (silly–which I love), or is it because he’s stoned.You see the signs, I would run as far away as you could and be the light in this dark world. I have confronted him with his disrespect towards me and that I know he lies to me.He says I’m the only one in his life and we will get through this.I dont want to leave him, but he is pushing me away and I will eventually have to walk away. I found out that he was dating another young lady and myself for 2 years at the same time. I went back yo him because of the strong feelings I have for him.But he continues to lie to me and tells me it’s me he wants but he is constantly texting the other lady and telling her he really misses her and wants to be with her.” And “why shouldn’t we put him through hell if the truth is that he’s an jerk? A man who lies doesn’t respect the woman and if she stays with someone who doesn’t respect her she could be setting herself to be used and abused. Yeah those things may be true to why he might lie but don’t you think there’s more drama when the truth finally comes out? 30 min later, after being on his phone quite a bit, he does “I need to go to the ER – my stomach hurts.” So I offered to Lyft home, but he refused and drove me home.As a guy, I would agree with you but coming from a gay man who dated other men, your reasons for lying are like another man lying about the reasons he’s lying. The truth will eventually come out and it hurts more to know that you’ve been lying. (At the time I felt like he was lying so I wasn’t overly sympathetic.) then he texted me that he found a free walkin clinic (at am on a Sat) on a particular street.