It also doesn’t make you weird if you’d rather not date via text.
So for anyone who wants to make it out the text game a winner, here’s how.
The strongest message you can send that new age dating isn’t for you, is not to send one. Women should not be afraid that a man will move on if you ask him to call you, how messed up is that logic? On a date, when a man pays, you’re asking him to invest because you’re investing in return. I want to make it clear that I endorse texting as a great tool and I encourage everyone to do it.
Many women don’t want to put their foot down in dating, and I’m not sure why. If a man starts getting into the habit of texting you, and you are sick of it, send them a simple response, I don’t care how you want to spin it. Men always say they don’t know what women want, if you want a call ask for it. If a man wants to date you, and you require phone calls, he’ll call. The idea isn’t to abolish all texting, the point is to establish effective communication.
And hint, once you send those naked pictures, you aren’t getting them back.
I’m all for technology but it doesn’t make you old-fashioned if you don’t like it.
eating beets and drinking sad green juices all the time, but rather something much more enjoyable -- dating younger women. And when I say games, I mean things like suddenly ghosting and then texting her “wyd” after three weeks, booty calls at 2 am, you know, shit like that.“In both of my past relationships with older men, I’ve gone into them assuming that there won’t be any games played, and that choosing to date someone who has had the time to make past relationship mistakes will have learned from them."Older guys looking to date younger women should know that just because we’re younger doesn’t mean we’re more willing to put up with B. You also need romance and intellectual passion to keep the spark alive. “Most of the men I've dated have been older,” says Shekinah, 30. Depending on your age I'm looking for a certain level of maturity, someone I can learn from, someone looking to have a long-term relationship, and someone that knows who he is."4. “There’s a reason I prefer older men,” says Kristen, 27. “Don't pressure us to live on your timeline,” 29-year old Johari explains.As a woman with challenges in intimacy the text allows me to seem like I care without actually having to care.To be honest, I just don’t feel like I have the time to devote all of my brain cells to a phone call.I know first hand how helpful the advancement of smart phones have been to single men and allowed me to reach out to dates who otherwise I would avoid.I understand the frustrations some people have with texting because I am guilty of over texting.And honestly, I haven’t met a man of late whose voice I care to hear.Maybe it’s my dude side but I absolutely hate talking to the opposite sex on the phone.First of all, some part of my hearing doesn’t distinguish deep voices anyway. If you live far away I might hit you up on Skype, but when you don’t hear the phone ring, that’s me calling.To be fair, there are men who I really like, that I have never had a conversation with over the phone because I just don’t want to get that close to them.This is a great way to determine what I call who is ’bout it.If someone really likes you, they’ll text you again.