She is a marketing consultant, Co-Author of "20 Beautiful Women," fitness model and was featured on Dr.
Dave's nationally broadcasted radio show, "Health Mastery Café." In addition to her roles as mother and provider, in 2013, Jessica's broad achievements were acknowledged as she was crowned to represent the State of Illinois in a National Beauty Pageant.
I was thrust into a sea of people much more experienced than I am. Before you jump out there again, have a clear understanding of what your standards are. Know the answers to these questions and do not waiver. It's a numbers game, don't waste your time." (Thank you, Jay! Because of this, I was a complete basket case, getting jealous and angry over the smallest things, wanting one thing one day and something completely different the next.
I envision myself as the elephant in Tarzan fearfully dipping my toe in the water screaming, "Is this water sanitary? " I know I'm not the only woman out here forced to face the daunting task of "getting back on the saddle," afraid to get hurt, make the wrong move and have to start over. It is so easy to slide back into the comfortability of a long term relationship with someone you just met. Every man is going to push you and test to see how far he can go and what he can get away with. ) Having a guy friend who will tell you the truth is like having a spy on the other side. I've never been called "crazy" in my entire life until that experience and I can't say I disagree with it.
Online dating may be a jungle, but it’s a jungle with a LOT of single people, so it’s best to learn how to master the process.
As a woman, your takeaway is that while you may get frustrated at the lack of quality responses, put yourself in a man’s shoes.
• The two most attractive women probably would have received several thousand more if their inboxes hadn’t have reached maximum capacity.Be willing to fall, be willing to fail, be willing to feel pain, jealousy and other emotions that you may have never felt before.Become comfortable with the uncomfortable while simultaneously becoming an observer of your own life.“The expanded horizons offered by online dating don’t equal unrestricted access to a ready and waiting list of beautiful people.Every man and woman online still has criteria that must be met by people who want to date him or her, and every guy and girl is still in direct competition with every other person of their gender…Yet when it comes to dating, I turn into a teenage girl; inexperienced, vulnerable and completely naïve. We stay the same until experience forces us to grow up and change. Recently, a man I hadn't heard from for several months texted, "When can I see you?My life's experiences have forced me to grow wise beyond my years; but when it comes to dating, I am a baby. How long do you wait until moving the relationship further? " Before answering, I sent a screenshot to Jay who quickly replied, "He sent that to 10 women, seeing who bites. When you FINALLY find someone you like for the first time, expect to mess up... I met a man I really liked and for the first time in my life felt jealousy. I didn't know what I wanted, was in the comfortable mentality of a long term relationship, didn't want to feel lonely and had no expectations.As a man, your takeaway is that the competition is fierce, and thus far, you have not been up to it.Stop blaming Match or women or your city for your failures and learn to market yourself more effectively.• It took 2 months, 13 days for the most popular woman’s inbox to fill up.At the current rate it would take the most popular man 2.3 years to fill up his. Well, you’ve seen this a few times before:“Most men compliment the attractive women a lot, they make reference to something in the woman’s profile (you would not believe how many times men mentioned the party tricks and ‘Arrow’ the cheetah from the generic profile I wrote), or they ask a general question about travel or something equally boring.” What SHOULD he write instead?